25 05, 2017

Passive, Anorexic Men Married to Assertive, Dominate Women

By | 2017-11-17T10:18:51+00:00 May 25th, 2017|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Communication, Intimacy Anorexia, Marriage|0 Comments

I see a theme with many couples I work with.  This theme is that of intimacy anorexia, love, sex addiction and codependency. Traditionally, it has been believed and thought that a man struggling with intimacy anorexia is to carry the burden and blame for not pursuing his wife emotionally, relationally, sexually and spiritually.  For [...]

2 03, 2017

Understanding Apathy, Sympathy, Codependency & Empathy

By | 2017-11-17T10:35:04+00:00 March 2nd, 2017|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Communication|0 Comments

“I see dead people.” This is perhaps one of the most famous lines from the 1999 mystery thriller, The Sixth Sense.  As I remember the story, the main character, Bruce Willis, goes through the movie believing he also sees dead people like the little boy he meets. However, by the end of the movie, [...]

2 02, 2017

Does Sex Addiction ÷ Infidelity = Divorce?

By | 2017-11-17T10:51:38+00:00 February 2nd, 2017|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Communication, Sex Addiction|0 Comments

As the month of January comes to a close, I have learned January is the month of the year with the highest filings for divorce.  Apparently, this is the time of year couples are not marching to church but to the courthouse or attorney’s office.  They have made it through “the most wonderful time [...]

22 09, 2016

Help, I think My Child is Addicted to Porn

By | 2017-11-17T17:33:08+00:00 September 22nd, 2016|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Communication, Sex Addiction, Youth|0 Comments

You have tried to protect your son or daughter from pornography.  You have done all the right things as a loving parent.  You have filters on your internet service in your home.  As a family, you do not watch R, PG-13 or even PG-rated movies.  You do not let them play violent or sexually [...]

21 04, 2016

Assertive Sex

By | 2017-04-14T21:23:42+00:00 April 21st, 2016|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Communication, Marriage|0 Comments

In our overly sexually stimulated society, it may be difficult to believe many married couples struggle with being sexually intimate on a consistent basis.  Specializing in working with sex addicts and the intimacy anorexic population, it is common to see couples who have not had sex for weeks, months, years or even decades.  Generally, both [...]

7 04, 2016

Is Individual Therapy Destroying My Marriage?

By | 2017-11-21T18:32:10+00:00 April 7th, 2016|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Communication, Marriage|0 Comments

“We tried counseling.  It didn’t work, so we have decided to get a divorce.”  Over the years, I’ve heard these words many times.  Upon further questioning, it is usually that the couple was indeed going to counseling, however, both seeing their individual therapist.  I have nothing against individual counseling other than it is not [...]