This category provides all blog articles written by Cory and Kerry Schortzman.

24 11, 2018

Exchanging the Debt of Shame with the Currency of Forgiveness, Part II

By |2018-11-24T21:58:24+00:00November 24th, 2018|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Forgiveness, Shame|0 Comments

If your mind is not spinning from Part I, let’s continue on with Part II. Before 1868, America was under Common Law or Law of the Land. Natural Law and the Natural Man or Free Man, a human being, meant each man and woman had their own sovereignty to kill or be killed and [...]

24 11, 2018

Exchanging the Debt of Shame with the Currency of Forgiveness, Part I

By |2018-11-27T14:55:13+00:00November 24th, 2018|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Forgiveness, Shame|0 Comments

Seek the truth for yourself. Do your own research and come to your own conclusions. This blog has taken me a great amount to research, contemplation, and time. For this to make sense and to get my point across successfully, we first must understand some law history.  This is going to be a very [...]

11 10, 2018

From Empathy to Enabling to Entitlement

By |2018-10-11T22:43:16+00:00October 11th, 2018|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Boundaries, Codependency, Emotional Addiction, Marriage|0 Comments

In a previous blog, we looked at apathy, sympathy, codependency and empathy. However, the story continues. Continuing with the illustration of a well, let’s pick up where we the story left off. The next morning you go back to the well and climb down the ladder bringing food, water, love and first aid. You listen [...]

2 10, 2018

When Recovery Becomes…A Weapon

By |2018-09-30T22:34:32+00:00October 2nd, 2018|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Intimacy Anorexia, Marriage, Sex Addiction|0 Comments

Over the years while helping others in their recovery, I have seen how recovery can be manipulated, turned, twisted, and weaponized. Knowledge, words, concepts, catchy phrases, lines, labels and even a clinical diagnosis can be used as a weapon – much like loaded gun that is always ready to be used against friends, family, [...]

18 09, 2018

When Recovery Corrupts…the Recovered

By |2018-09-16T21:36:24+00:00September 18th, 2018|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Codependency, Narcisissm, Support Groups|0 Comments

Recently in one of my support groups, we discussed the topic of finding a sponsor as well as the importance of a group leader being genuine and humble, there to serve others and not to be served or to stroke his ego. The meeting reminded me of a story about humility I heard years [...]

11 09, 2018

When you Marry as a Prostitute Don’t Expect a Faithful Prince

By |2018-09-11T16:58:10+00:00September 11th, 2018|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Intimacy Anorexia, Marriage, Sex Addiction|0 Comments

In the spirit of bashing and shaming men and keeping women as victims, I thought it necessary to address this topic, which I did some time ago in another blog entitled Victimized Women and Shamed Men. For most of the women who read this blog, I warn you in advance that this blog is [...]