7 10, 2014

Addicted to Being Offended

By |2019-03-14T18:35:52+00:00October 7th, 2014|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, John & Rebecca's Story, Top Addiction Networks|0 Comments

It’s Friday, and the week has been challenging for John and Rebecca.  They have worked hard all week. Addiction generally has power in our life because of secrecy and opportunity. On Monday, John was able to end his secrecy, as he was willing to take a polygraph test.  I would estimate that 95 percent [...]

1 10, 2014

Four Principles that will Save your Marriage

By |2019-03-14T18:38:05+00:00October 1st, 2014|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, John & Rebecca's Story, Marriage, Top Addiction Networks|0 Comments

It was a brisk Monday morning with fall approaching Colorado Springs. The air was fresh as sunlight peeks up from the east and dances off the eastern slope of the Colorado Rockies. On Mondays, intensive work begins at Transformed Hearts, and the office was busy with couples arriving. Many were cautiously optimistic, feeling anxiety [...]

28 09, 2014

Removing the Sexual Anorexia Virus: Treatment Options

By |2019-03-19T21:52:39+00:00September 28th, 2014|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, John & Rebecca's Story, Top Addiction Networks|0 Comments

Much like getting a flu shot can prevent you from getting sick with the flu, there is still not a 100 percent guarantee you will not get the flu.  However, it can increase your chance of not becoming ill. Recently, I learned my computer is much the same way, as anti-virus software helps prevent [...]

21 09, 2014

What is Sexual Anorexia/Intimacy Anorexia

By |2019-03-14T18:43:10+00:00September 21st, 2014|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Intimacy Anorexia, John & Rebecca's Story, Top Addiction Networks|1 Comment

A week has passed since I spoke to John’s wife, Rebecca. John and I met for our phone assessment and consultation. Over the years, I have learned to “see” with my ears.  John was initially nervous on the call and burdened with a great deal of shame. I assured him that I was not [...]

16 09, 2014

Pain & Priority: The Two Motivators

By |2019-03-14T22:59:57+00:00September 16th, 2014|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, John & Rebecca's Story, Marriage, Top Addiction Networks|0 Comments

It was a Wednesday summer afternoon at Transformed Hearts in Colorado Springs, Colorado.  I had been returning calls we had received on our voice mail system.  One of the calls I received was from a woman on the East Coast, who sounded very discouraged and distressed about her husband.  She believed he had been [...]