15 03, 2018

Tolerance…The Beast

By |2018-03-15T20:18:26+00:00March 15th, 2018|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Pornography, Sex Addiction|0 Comments

Addicts can build a great deal of tolerance with their addiction, as they are able to use more of the substance more often. As quantity and frequency increases, it can deceive the addict into believing that they can “handle it.” Slowly but surely, the addict begins to be controlled by this beast, as it [...]

18 01, 2018

Porn Hub [Web of Destruction]

By |2018-01-18T15:39:31+00:00January 18th, 2018|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Pornography, Sex Addiction, Sex Trafficking, Substance Abuse|1 Comment

“A little porn will not hurt me.” “Porn keeps things interesting in the bedroom.” “My partner doesn’t care if I look at porn.” “Everybody does it.” “Porn is natural. It’s an artistic expression.” “What is the big deal?” “I could stop if I wanted too.” These excuses are all too common. For many of [...]

12 10, 2017

Sex, Hugh Hefner and XXX

By |2018-04-11T18:30:45+00:00October 12th, 2017|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Pornography, Sex Addiction|0 Comments

  As the news of the passing of the late Hugh Hefner was released, some have been saddened and others have celebrated. There have been many blogs and articles written but few from the perspective I want to share. Over the past 10 years as a sexual recovery therapist and as a recovering sex [...]

25 07, 2017

The Power of Love

By |2018-04-11T18:45:48+00:00July 25th, 2017|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Erectile Dysfunction, Marriage, Pornography|0 Comments

What is love?  How do you define love?  Over the generations, there have been a few songs written about it. I love pizza.  I love my car.  I love my dog, my kids, and my wife.  Yet, the context can mean different things when I use the word. Here in the West, our use [...]

14 04, 2016

My Spouse is Cheating! What do I do now?

By |2018-04-11T20:00:11+00:00April 14th, 2016|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Disclosure, Intimacy Anorexia, Pornography, Sex Addiction|0 Comments

Your worst fear has some true.  You heard from a friend who said they saw your spouse kissing someone in public…and it wasn’t you!  You may have phone records, texts, financial records, emails or internet history that is more than enough evidence of the affair.  You may have even have caught your spouse in [...]

11 04, 2016

10 Reasons Sex Addicts Act Out

By |2017-11-18T22:04:22+00:00April 11th, 2016|All Blogs, All Cory's Blogs, Men's Issues, Pornography, Sex Addiction|0 Comments

Generally, female partners of sex addicts what to know why their male partner has a sex addiction.  They not only want to know why, but how this happened.  Is there hope?  What can be done about it?  How long will it take for them to change?  Is it their fault?  Is this treatable? Can [...]