The men who come to Transformed Hearts are… good men.
The women who come to Transformed Hearts are… amazing women.
The toughest thing in therapy is not facing your partner or your therapist, it’s facing the person in the mirror and owning your own mistakes.
You are loved for who you are NOT for what you do.
We provide a shame-free environment. Shaming people will provide immediate short-term results but will create long-term problems. You know your badness better than anyone. This is not the real problem. Your problem is that you don’t believe in your goodness.
We Believe in the 4 Pillars
Wise vs. Foolish
Not everything is about right vs. wrong rather wise vs. foolish.
What is wise for one couple may be foolish for the next couple we work with.
Happy vs. Holy
Marriage is not about making you happy but about making you holy and dying to your selfishness.
Fault vs. Responsibility
We are not as concerned with who is at fault.
We are interested in who is the mature one in your marriage.
Want vs. Give
We are not interested in what you want from your partner.
However, we are interested in what you are willing to give, or in some cases, what you are willing to give up.