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High Value Relationships
This is the final blog in our sexual culture series as we attempt to understand what has happened between men and women. I hope you have un-learned some beliefs you may have held tightly. [...]
High Value Women
Now we are going to look at the character traits that make a high value woman. As I shared in the last blog, many men struggle in our culture because they have not been [...]
High Value Men
Next in this series, we are going to look at what traits make a high value man (HVM) and a high value woman (HVW). I have worked with individual men, women, and couples for [...]
Feminism, Birth Control, Disney and More
We are now going to look at the history of the feminist movement and the impact it has had on sexual culture. The etymology of the word femina in the Greek simply means woman. [...]
Are Men Disposable?
Men exist to facilitate a feminine reality. -Tomassi In our last blog, we looked at the gender war. If you did not watch or listen to the links by Cassie Jaye, you will not [...]
The Gender War
If you take the Red Pill, I will show you how deep the Rabbit Hole goes… -Morpheus A few weeks ago, my wife and I were watching Married at First Sight, Season 17. This [...]
Hypergamy
You cannot Negotiate Genuine Desire – Rollo Tomassi In this series, we have been learning about the sexual marketplace, the sexual market value individuals bring to the market, and the power each has as [...]
The Mating & Dating Game
Why buy the cow when the milk is free? - Historical Idiom In the last two blogs, we have begun to look at the theory of the sexual marketplace and an individual’s sexual market [...]
Sexual Market Value (SMV)
In our last blog, we looked at a macro or wide view of the sexual marketplace and how behavioral sexual economics works between men and women… at least in theory. We are just beginning [...]